Validation

Anonymous asked:

obvs ik peoples insecurities can be triggering so feel free to ignore BUT how do u think aemond would be with a insecure reader when it comes to their weight? 😘

Not a problem at all, Nonny! This is a first for me, but I had actually pondered doing this before! I hope I did alright!

Aemond x reader

• I’ve mentioned that Aemond’s love language is words of affirmation, and he would be taking every opportunity to make you feel validated and worthy of all his affection.

• If he catches you trying to hide your insecurities from him in intimate moments, he will halt all other activities to focus solely on how to make you feel better, more confident in how much he desires you. The man would freeze time itself if he could, in order to shower you in praises until you believed his words.

• It makes him genuinely upset when he sees you gazing unhappily into the mirror or pulling at your clothing. He would take your hand softly, placing a kiss to your temple, murmuring into your hair. “If only you could see yourself how I see you, Y/N.”

• As someone who struggles with body image issues, as most of us do I believe, it would take a lot of time and effort to make me feel better and less insecure about how I look. I firmly believe Aemond would absolutely put in that time and effort. He loves you so much, and knows how damaging cruel words-even ones whispered behind hands-can be. He is the champion of your heart and will do everything in his power to protect it.

• We know Aemond as someone who is soft and loving to those few he holds dearest. You being one of his inner circle, the prince will shower you in whatever you need to feel more confident in yourself. He will search you out, reading your expressions and body language like those books he studies in the library on late nights, and act according to what he perceives you need.

• The man is down bad for you and will make sure you feel comfortable in your own skin. He wants you to be empowered in who you are and what you look like, and won’t allow you to say disparaging things about yourself, instead redirecting your attention to his perspective of you.

• It takes some time, but with Aemond’s help, you slowly begin to notice your self confidence growing and your insecurities waning, growing less noticeable, with the tender encouragements Aemond has never failed to provide.